an ex-friend has humiliated me and betrayed me after 7 years of friendship, I want to hex her, I want her where her bf leaves her (he’s toxic and abusive anyways plus their codependency is alarming), she doesn’t prosper, and she loses all of her friends, and become saddened and miserable like she had made me. what is the best way to do this? I’m a beginner. how do you feel about putting her name in psalms 104? or something stronger than a jar spell?

witches-ofcolor:

witches-ofcolor:

Honestly
curse the fuck out of them. Something that I would consider is tying knots when
you get angry. It’s known as knot magik, and it’s said that the energy you tie
in knots can be released later on. Look up number correspondents but I typically
do 3. Release them when you cast the hex so you’ll have more energy.

A jar
spell would be perfect for this situation. When you have the correspondents, then
go for it. however there are specific ways to do a jar spell, so be sure you’ve
got those before you go on.

When I hex,
I typically use a photo of said person and send incredibly negative energy
their way. I don’t always need materials, but I’m very skilled at working, and
sending energy over large distances, so it’s a bit easier for me. But that’s an
option if a jar spell is hard to come by. With mediation and knots, you can
muster up enough energy.

Also I would
suggest poppets. When I do poppets, I draw the person and put all their
negative qualities in the poppet and cast the hex that way.

Again, what
I’m doing is sending negative energy their way. It would help if you wrote down
a spell so that your intent can be clear as you’re doing this, or even make a
sigil.

I’m not
familiar with using the psalms, but maybe someone else is!

Also because you’re a beginner but very careful and look up the precautions of hexing, just so you do it correctly!

Here’s an example of what i was talking about!

Are there any downsides to cursing someone who has done something horrible to you? Like is there a karma componant to be worried about?

systlin:

Look at it this way, if karma is something you believe in; if someone has done something awful to you, then what are you doing by cursing them but being an agent of karmic comeuppance?

systlin:

I’ve got…like…four or five people in my inbox going “I want to curse someone but don’t know how”

Ok children, Auntie Witch is in, pull up a chair and get out a pen. This is how Auntie Systlin curses a bitch who needs cursing.

TOOLS NEEDED; A stick, some red makeup, a knife

(For the red paint, I use red ochre and my own spit, but anything will work. Red invokes the color of blood.)

STEP 1

Protect yourself. I paint the rune Algiz on myself; on my forehead and on the back of each hand, and invoke its aspects of protection, to protect me from any kickback.

(that’s this rune right here. Algiz, the elk, the rune of protection and defense)

STEP 2; cast a circle or prepare a ritual space however you prefer.

STEP 3; Carve the curse on the stick, while invoking the name of the person you wish to curse, the runes you are carving and what you wish to invoke from them, and the effect you wish to have. Hold your target’s face in your mind as you do this, and pour all your intent and will into it.

RUNES I USE;

Isa, the rune of ice, to freeze whatever fuckshit actions are warranting the curse in place, and to cause the target nothing but delay and frustration.

Thurisaz, the rune of Thor’s Hammer, reversed. To bring down destruction and ruin on your target, and to harness the sheer (and serious) elemental power this rune can bring to the party.

Haigall, the rune of hail, to bring chaos, radical change, and catastrophe to your target.

And finally Nied, the need-fire, to teach them a bitter and painful lesson drawn from their own deepest folly.

Carve these, speak their names, invoke the aspects you want. Speak the name of your target, speak why you cast this curse and what you wish the curse to do. MEAN IT, EVERY WORD, and drive all of your emotion and intent into those runes.

You can carve them separately or make them a bindrune. Caster’s choice.

Ask for the aid of any gods you wish to involve (optional)

Step 4; Say, “By my will, so let it be” and break the stave to send the power.

pearlsandgrapevines:

“You Cannot Touch Her” Curse/Binding

This curse is particularly for people who have done harm in the past, and as such already known to be a potential threat. The idea is to keep the person from speaking to or approaching the one you’re trying to protect, and to make them feel watched and judged for their past actions.

You will need the following:

A jar big enough to hold a poppet

Some kind of poppet – I used a wooden one with the offender’s name written on the bottom. A photo could also be used

White out

A black candle

A mixture of black salt & cayenne pepper

A sigil of your own design meaning “You cannot touch [name or pronoun]”

A permanent marker

Light the candle and white out the mouth of your poppet. Roll the poppet in the mixture of black salt and cayenne pepper (black salt tends to stain so keep this in mind). Place it in the jar and seal the lid, leaving the poppet inside under the gaze of dozens of eyes. Write your sigil on the lid. During or after all of this, say the following aloud or think it to yourself (change pronouns accordingly):

You cannot touch her.
You cannot speak to her.
Think of her and bring this curse upon you.
May your tongue catch in your throat if you dare to reach her.
May you burn and ache if you come near.
May you feel eyes upon your back each time you think her name.
They’re watching. I’m watching.
May you forever question the gaze of others –
Do they know the things you’ve done?
I do. I curse you. I bind you.
You cannot touch her.

Stash the jar in a dark place, like a closet or a cabinet (I don’t recommend burying jars). Let the candle burn until it extinguishes itself.